Well, like others mentioned its a lot like getting laid back home. If you don't get laid closer home, it won't be easy while you travel. Here are some tips I have.
Malaysia is safe for women travellers. Mainland Malaysia is on the route from Thailand to Singapore which makes solo travel in Malaysia easy to get around. be as cheap but it's more laid back and less crowded and is bursting with heritage....
Solo traveler laid traveling cheapGreat list- gotta second Koh Chang. However, traveling alone gives you the ultimate freedom to explore sexually.
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Better still as you already know them. Florida Keys Travel Forum. I have had a lot of problems with this as well while travelling alone!